Ok just bear with me because I am about to vent.....
Let's start off with an explanation....I'll even just give the basics and not the whole year long story....there is this first grade teacher at my school that is REDICILIOUS! She has something like 10 or 11 kids in her class, and talks all the time about how it is so hard to manage them. On top of that she has had two parents go into the office and demand that their kids be pulled from her class, and one parent that pulled their kid from the school so he wouldn't be in her class anymore. NO ONE likes this first grade dingbat (which is a REALLY NICE thing for me to call her right now!!). NO ONE! During the year she has shh'ed several adults durring mettings. She does not know how to speak pollietly to anyone. Even the other day she was yelling at her kids for not knowing what a holiday is. COME ONNNNNNN they are in 1st grade!!!!!!!! Don't be a bitch! I could go on and on, but I think you get the point. She's horrible and no one likes her.
Well today we had Multicultural day at school. At 12:30 the whole school went into the assembly room for several different grades to put on performances. My kids were sitting up in the front right behind first grade. I was standing in the back of the room because we had already preformed and I wanted to watch the other preformances. Well apparently my kids were getting a little too loud in between the performances, and I was called over to them. I walk up and say "Is there a problem?" because I wanted to know if there were some specific students that I needed to talk to, and she comes back at me in the most horrible tone "Uh yeah you could sit with your kids, please!" (which doesn't sound bad at all when you are reading it, it was the WAY she said it!!!) Right then and there I had to bite my tounge, litteraly, because I was about to rip her a new one. How dare you be so disrespectful to me in front of my students and your students. But I decided I would be adult about it and wait until I had calmed down some, and all the kids were gone to talk to her about the situation.
So at 3:00 once all the kids and buses are gone all the teachers were still outside helping to clean up and just talking. She had kinda walked away from everyone else so I decided that this would be a good time to let her know she needs to be respectful to adults in front of children if she expects them to act the same. I start out very pollite and calm, and as I'm trying to tell her what the problem was she cuts me off and starts talking about a WHOLE other situation that has NOTHING to do with her speaking to me respectfully. She tells me that at breakfast duty I need to be watching my kids more, because the only time that I get on to them is when they are running around. Well shit if that didn't confuse me. Because I figured that if they were sitting down at breakfast then there wasn't a problem. Though again that is not what I was talking to her about. And I have no idea how breakfast duty has anything to do with her talking to me with respect in front of the kids. So I try to get back on topic and then she tells me that I wasn't teaching my kids well enough during the assembly. So I was like well shit what the f*** is she talking about now b/c I know we were not teaching during the assembly, we were watching an assembly. So again I try to get back to the point at hand, and the she just decides to stand there and stare at me. So I say do you understand? Again she says something to the effect of me not teaching my children correctly, so I just walked off and said "I'm not even going to talk to you about teaching." I was really trying to not hit below the belt and she was really trying to pull me down there. It was I walk away or I really start to rip into her.
Well durring all this pretty much all the other teachers were standing in the background listening. The best part of it was that when she moved away from me she stood there and looked around to see that everyone was moving towards me and not her, and then she just walked away.
BUT WAIT! It gets EVEN BETTER!! The BITCH had the balls to say under her breath as she was walking away "Well that's why I'm going to be here next year and your not!" Another teacher and her aide her this INSANE woman say that! When she told me that's what she heard I about went postal! I wanted to go find her again and rip into her again! Not once did I say anything mean or negative towards you. Not once was I caddy or degrading. First of all you should get your facts straight before you say shit like that! Because I would be there next year if I wasn't MOVING TO ANOTHER FUCKING STATE!
I'm just glad I'm not going to work tomorrow, because I'm pretty sure I would rip into her again. I am really going to need 3 days to calm down from this! She is a freak! The whole time she had no idea what I was saying to her. The WHOLE point of the converstaion was to let her know that when children are around you need to treat all adults with respect if you expect the children to do the same. They learn more by watching you than by what you say! And them seeing you talking to another adult like that shows them it's okay for them to talk to each other or another adult like that. It is NOT OK!
AAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!! She makes me insanly angry! I have to stop talking about it now so I can calm down again! haha
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